REST API: Handle parameter types consistently within set_param().

A request has multiple parameter types, including "query" and "json." Updating a parameter could previously modify a key's value in the wrong parameter type, leading to confusing and self-contradictory response objects.

Props mnelson4, TimothyBlynJacobs, vagios, jnylen0.
Fixes #40838.

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