Options, Meta APIs: Reorder the parameters of `default_{$meta_type}_metadata` filter.

This brings consistency with the `get_{$meta_type}_metadata` filter and more closely matches the `get_metadata_default()` function signature.

Follow-up to [48502].

Props spacedmonkey.
See #43941.
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